What kind of Healer are You?

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This is a conversation I’ve been wanting to have for a while, but I wasn’t quite sure how to approach it. Initially, I wanted to share why I transitioned from practicing magic to focusing solely on light work. But as I reflected, I realized I didn’t want this post to be entirely about me.

As I always say, everything happens for a reason. Over the past six years as a professional light worker, I’ve had the opportunity to meet and observe so many different kinds of healers. Today, I want to share those insights with you and dive into what I’ve learned along this journey.

If you’re new here, welcome! I am a light worker, though my title tends to shift depending on the moment-I’ve called myself a medium, a two-headed woman, a healer, and sometimes something that just feels cool in the moment. But one thing remains constant: I’ve been doing this work professionally since 2020. I specialize in assisting people to release the old version of themselves through shadow work. Reconnect with their higher selves through self love and acceptance.

I didn’t choose this path; this life chose me. I grew up surrounded by women who practiced Hoodoo, maintained altars, connected with ancestors, and guided others in the community. Much of it was hidden in plain sight, but it was always present.

I fully accepted my calling during the pandemic - a deeply emotional and transformative time for all of us. It was during that period of vulnerability and self-reflection that I focused on changing myself for the better. Through that journey, I began channeling my ancestors and embracing my gifts. It was a new and overwhelming experience, but I’m grateful to have had family who understood and supported me through my awakening.

Today, my gifts include mediumship and divination. Whether it’s cards, auras, laying hands, tea leaves you name it. I’ve found that I have the ability to tap into and interpret these energies. I’m honored to share this journey with you all.

I want to take a moment to explain why I personally no longer practice magic. First, let me define what magic means to me: it’s the act of working with the forces of nature to manifest or conjure something to work in your favor - whether that’s for revenge, success, beauty, love, or something else. This can involve tools like candles, jars, dolls, gris-gris bags, and more.

I want to be clear: I don’t look down on magic or discourage others from practicing it. I deeply respect it. Magic has helped so many people, including my ancestors and family. But for me, I don’t feel the need to practice it because the work I am doing I don't feel like there's a need for it.

That being said, let me be clear - if I need to protect myself, I will do what’s necessary. And that’s on period. I will leave offerings to spirits and work with herbs.

Magic simply isn’t a part of my journey anymore, but I honor and respect the role it plays in the lives of others.

In this line of work, I’ve had the privilege of meeting so many different types of healers, witches, root workers, and more - and I’m excited to meet even more as my journey continues. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is understanding who I am in this space and what I bring to the table.

For beginners, navigating this world can feel tricky at times. My advice: stay open to learning, be mindful of who you choose to call a mentor, and above all, be patient with your journey. Growth takes time, and there’s so much beauty in that process.

Below, I’ve listed the different kinds of healers I’ve come across in my work. This list is ever-evolving, and I’m sure I’ll expand on it in the future. But for now, these are the categories that feel most aligned with where I’m at today.

The Conjuror

This is the person you go to when you need a candle to help you land a job, get out of jail, deal with a cheating boyfriend, or attract a sugar daddy with the perfect oil blend. You name it, they’ve got it. Most of the time, this healer was born into the work. Their recipes and practices are passed down through generations, probably tucked into the pages of an Old Testament Bible.

This two-headed doctor is often imitated but rarely duplicated. Their power radiates so strongly that it draws in admirers and wannabes, especially from newbies who want to replicate their ‘aesthetic.’ And let’s be real-they usually look cool as hell, and their energy practically leaps out of their photos.

That said, there’s a shadow side to this type of healer: the phonies. There are a lot of them out there, so you need to do your homework. Ask questions like, ‘How long have you been doing this work?‘ ‘Who taught you?’ and ‘What are the names of your elders? Pay attention to their lifestyle, too if someone’s making you a money candle, they should reflect that prosperity themselves, in my opinion.

Lastly, let’s talk pricing. A good indicator of their experience is their rates. If their services range from $300 to $150, they’re likely well-seasoned and know what they’re doing.

The Light Worker

This type of healer often focuses on self-love and inner work, such as shadow work or womb healing. They emphasize a holistic approach to wellness, promoting a lifestyle that includes healthy eating, exercise, meditation, and yes-orgasms. (I’m laughing, but I’m very serious!)

You’ll often find these healers practicing as reiki masters, yoga instructors, doulas, herbalists, artists, or even therapists. Their work is rooted in fostering connection with the self and cultivating a healthy, balanced life.

However, it’s important to be mindful of the shadow side of healers in this category. Some may lean into narcissism or toxic positivity, brushing over real struggles in favor of an overly idealized image of healing. Others might be involved in communities that feel a bit cultish, or they can come across as condescending to newcomers or outsiders.

Every system and practice has its light and shadow-there are those who genuinely work for the greater good, and others who use their position to inflate their ego. No one is perfect, and no practice is without its flaws. Always use your discernment, trust your intuition, and don’t be afraid to question what doesn’t feel right to you.

The Priestess

These healers are typically my favorite, and they’re also the ones I attract the most. They’ve been in the game for over 15 years, and if you’re lucky enough to find a good one, they’re often eager to connect and learn from the newer generation. They maintain strong boundaries, but if they’ve adopted you into their spiritual family, they’ve got your back for life.

This type of healer is usually a priest or priestess who has undergone proper training and initiation to earn their title. Their dedication to spirituality is so deep that some may still attend church or embrace multiple titles and practices.

But like anyone, they have a shadow side to watch for. Be cautious if their community feels cult-like or overly competitive. Red flags include crossing boundaries, attempting to manipulate you, or giving off jealous energy-especially if they seem threatened by your success or growth.

A great healer in this category will want to see you shine and grow, but it’s always important to stay mindful of the energy they bring into your life.

The RootWorker

This healer's home looks like an apothecary shop, complete with shelves of herbs and potions and maybe even a thriving garden outside. They may have once been a light worker or a conjurer but have since grown into a different phase of their practice. They can take one look at you and instantly know which tea you need to get right.

This healer is well-connected-they’ve either been everyone’s go-to diviner back in the day or are deeply active in their community. They have friends in every circle and seem to know everything about the spiritual world, but they remain grounded and content in their practice.

They’re not into labels but don’t mind being called a healer or an herbalist. Their tea blends are unmatched, and they always smell like a mix of flowers and honeysuckle.

Honestly, I can’t think of a shadow side for this healer because the ones I know personally are pure vibes. But if you’ve got any ideas, feel free to drop them in the comments, lol.

This was so much fun to write! I’d love to hear from you-which one of these healers resonates with you the most? Personally, I see myself as a mix between a Priestess (in training) and a Light Worker. I believe it’s possible to embody two at a time-or even have qualities from all of them!

Thank you all so much for reading and sharing this journey with me. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!

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